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Male, 43 years old, and single.  Backseat available.  Owns a 2002 Yamaha Road Star Midnight Star XV16AS and 1 other bike.  Interested in females.  Looking for friends, riding partners, or a relationship.  Religious view is God is everywhere. Ride and you'll see!.  Drinks socially.  Moderate political views.  Lives in The stix, Minnesota  United States.  Member since October 2011.  Last online last month.

For those I text or call off here...I'll talk to you later! For the rest, this is goodbye. On January 1st, I will walk away from BON like I did FB. If you are not one I communicate with off here, but want to have a real conversation with me, you have until then to message me here with that desire (either ask for or give contact info).

I need less drama and BS, and more human interaction...BON is adding one and taking away time for the other...so this is good bye...
I left Facebook because it was all political B'S (both sides), hypocritical people, and desperate-to-date women who were so jaded that they couldn't even see the toxicity oozing off them.

BON was a biker site. There was still some of the above, but a LOT less. No more.

I have met some very cool people here and we talk outside of BON. I have also attempted to befriend many here and have been met with lackluster responses. Communication is a two way street, folks.
Today while scrolling through my feed, I encountered no less than 10 single women posting male body-shaming memes (and have either today or in the very recent past, posted "big is beautiful" female memes). At least 8 of them have lamented their single status in the last day or so...coincidence? Doubtful.

There were the usual suspects, commenting on each other's posts, "You have a tiny penis," and "You're a fat slut,"...

And amazingly, no politics! Thank you!!
Yes, you are better off alone than in an almost relationship . Yes, you are better off alone than in a relationship where you are unhappy half the time. But that doesn’t mean that you are better off alone as a whole. That doesn’t mean that you should push everyone away in order to protect yourself. That doesn’t mean that you should refuse to take a chance on love at all. If you find someone who treats you the way...See More you deserve to be treated, who puts effort into making you smile, who makes you feel alive for the first time in your life, then you are not actually better off alone. You are better off taking a risk. Going on a date. Getting to know each other. Learning to trust each other. Allowing this person access to your heart, even though there is always a chance that they will break it. When you find someone who fits you in all the right places, you can’t let fear convince you to stay single. You can’t keep telling yourself that you are happier alone. You can’t assume that a relationship will end in fire and flames before it even begins. Once you find someone worthwhile, you have to open your heart. Open your soul. Open yourself up to the possibility that this person won’t hurt you like all the others. Even though it’s tempting to run, to hide, to sabotage your chances at a real relationship, you should remind yourself that you deserve to be loved. You deserve to be held by hands that are reserved for you. You deserve to find someone who looks at you like you are their entire world. Pretending that you are emotionless isn’t actually protecting you. It’s only stopping you from finding the person that has been searching for you. Trust me when I say — you have to abandon the idea that you are better off alone, because it is going to cause you to keep to yourself. It is going to cause you to ruin the best thing that could have ever happened to you. Author: Holly Riordan
Foreverfun
Yes I do!
Yes it is!
sad...and too often true...

Here Are 45 Life Lessons Written by 90 Year Old!



– Although life is not tied with a bow, it is a gift.

– You should yield.
– You must dress up as well as show up, regardless of how you feel.

– Something better will happen in the future.

– You should accept what you already have because envy is, without a doubt, a waste of time.
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– Growing old is not easy, but it beats the alternative — dying young.

– In case you threw your problems in a pile as well as saw the problems of others, you would grab yours back.

– You should get outside on a daily basis.

– Your kids get just one childhood.

– It is important to understand that time can heal literally everything.

– You should not audit life.

– You shouldn’t take yourself very seriously.

– No matter how bad or good every situation is, it’ll change.

– You shouldn’t pay attention to what others think of you.

– In the end, all that genuinely matters is that you truly loved.

– Although you should forgive, you shouldn’t forget.

– You should take the next step when in doubt.

– You should choose Life, regardless of what’s happening.

– Frame each disaster with the following sentence ‘In 5 years, will it matter?’

– Taking a deep breath helps calm your mind.

– You are in charge of your own happiness.

– The most significant sex organ is your brain.

– You should be eccentric today.

– Wear the fancy lingerie, burn the candles, and use the beautiful sheets. Do not save anything for a special occasion because each day is actually special.

– Focus on what’s important to you.

– Keep in mind that it is not too late to be happy.

– What does not kill you makes you stronger.

– Get rid of what is useless.

– Do not buy unnecessary stuff.

– You should always believe in miracles.

– Everything could change in the blink of an eye. However, God doesn’t blink.

– You should never get into a secret relationship.

– Crying with someone else is more beneficial than crying alone.

– Never compare yourself to others.

– You do not have to always hide your tears to prevent your kids from getting upset.

– Do not allow your past to screw up your present.

– Resistance is actually futile when it comes to chocolate.

– Save for what really matters.

– Enjoy life since it’s too short.

– It is okay to get angry with God. God could take it.

– You should stay true to yourself instead of trying to win each argument.

– Your family and friends will take care of you whenever you’re sick, not your job.

– Even though life is not fair, it is still good.
I need to remember this...
So sad...yet so true. THIS is why I left facebook...been happier ever since!
A CHRISTMAS POEM

TWAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS,
HE LIVED ALL ALONE,
IN A ONE BEDROOM HOUSE MADE OF
PLASTER AND STONE.

I HAD COME DOWN THE CHIMNEY
WITH PRESENTS TO GIVE,
AND TO SEE JUST WHO
IN THIS HOME DID LIVE.

I LOOKED ALL ABOUT,
A STRANGE SIGHT I DID SEE,
NO TINSEL, NO PRESENTS, See More
NOT EVEN A TREE.

NO STOCKING BY MANTLE,
JUST BOOTS FILLED WITH SAND,
ON THE WALL HUNG PICTURES
OF FAR DISTANT LANDS.

WITH MEDALS AND BADGES,
AWARDS OF ALL KINDS,
A SOBER THOUGHT
CAME THROUGH MY MIND.

FOR THIS HOUSE WAS DIFFERENT,
IT WAS DARK AND DREARY,
I FOUND THE HOME OF A SOLDIER,
ONCE I COULD SEE CLEARLY.

THE SOLDIER LAY SLEEPING,
SILENT, ALONE,
CURLED UP ON THE FLOOR
IN THIS ONE BEDROOM HOME.

THE FACE WAS SO GENTLE,
THE ROOM IN SUCH DISORDER,
NOT HOW I PICTURED
A UNITED STATES SOLDIER.

WAS THIS THE HERO
OF WHOM I'D JUST READ?
CURLED UP ON A PONCHO,
THE FLOOR FOR A BED?

I REALIZED THE FAMILIES
THAT I SAW THIS NIGHT,
OWED THEIR LIVES TO THESE SOLDIERS
WHO WERE WILLING TO FIGHT.

SOON ROUND THE WORLD,
THE CHILDREN WOULD PLAY,
AND GROWNUPS WOULD CELEBRATE
A BRIGHT CHRISTMAS DAY.

THEY ALL ENJOYED FREEDOM
EACH MONTH OF THE YEAR,
BECAUSE OF THE SOLDIERS,
LIKE THE ONE LYING HERE.

I COULDN'T HELP WONDER
HOW MANY LAY ALONE,
ON A COLD CHRISTMAS EVE
IN A LAND FAR FROM HOME.

THE VERY THOUGHT
BROUGHT A TEAR TO MY EYE,
I DROPPED TO MY KNEES
AND STARTED TO CRY.

THE SOLDIER AWAKENED
AND I HEARD A ROUGH VOICE,
"SANTA DON'T CRY,
THIS LIFE IS MY CHOICE;

I FIGHT FOR FREEDOM,
I DON'T ASK FOR MORE,
MY LIFE IS MY GOD,
MY COUNTRY, MY CORPS."

THE SOLDIER ROLLED OVER
AND DRIFTED TO SLEEP,
I COULDN'T CONTROL IT,
I CONTINUED TO WEEP.

I KEPT WATCH FOR HOURS,
SO SILENT AND STILL
AND WE BOTH SHIVERED
FROM THE COLD NIGHT'S CHILL.

I DIDN'T WANT TO LEAVE
ON THAT COLD, DARK, NIGHT,
THIS GUARDIAN OF HONOR
SO WILLING TO FIGHT.

THEN THE SOLDIER ROLLED OVER,
WITH A VOICE SOFT AND PURE,
WHISPERED, "CARRY ON SANTA,
IT'S CHRISTMAS DAY, ALL IS SECURE."

ONE LOOK AT MY WATCH,
AND I KNEW HE WAS RIGHT.
"MERRY CHRISTMAS MY FRIEND,
AND TO ALL A GOOD NIGHT."

This poem was written by a Marine. The
following is his request. I think it is reasonable......
I hope so...
Foreverfun


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