Introduction: Hello, My name is Brenda but alot of people call me Bre so you can choose whichever. I'm 43 years old.
I have a son, Brandon Michael, that is 23 years old. He is a Marine and Iraq Veteran. He is going through some problems right now and I am standing right beside him in support. He is my world and my life and always will be. I also have 2 grandchildren that I share custody of with my ex and they live with him.
I have done alot in my life. I have been a wife, mother, bartender, secretary, and a memberof the USAF (Desert Storm Vet), among other things, all of which I am very proud to have accomplished with honors.
I am NOT looking for someone to financially take care of me, I get by. I do want someone that will be faithful to me. I also want someone that will meet me halfway, in life and everything that we do together.
I am as about as real a person as you will ever find. If I say it then it is true. I do not lie, Actually I get physically sick if I do. And yes that is an inconvience. lol. Oh well you'll have that.
I love music, riding, tattoos, (I have alot, so if ya don't like em pass me by). I have other passions as well but those you can ask about later.
UPDATE 3-02-2009
I got asked today what I was looking for: WOW What a question. I want my forever. I want to be number one in my mans life. If he is a member of any organization, I understand that, but I won't tolerate being second to another woman ever again. I'm not looking for a one night stand or to be someone that is called at the last resort. I want a man that wants to wake up beside me in the morning and go to sleep by my side a night. One that if we have an arguement, we can rationally talk it out like adults and not resort to silence till one of us forget why we were mad. Why? Because we never really forget, do we? I want to be able to just take off and do what ever we want to. I've raised my children and I'm ready to live my life and I want someone to share that with. Good and Bad. No-one is perfect so that is Not what I'm looking for. I want to belong to someone that thinks I'm wonderful no matter what flaws I may have or that my hair looks a total mess first thing in in the morning, or that I may not wear makeup everyday. I want someone that is going to make me feel like I'm the only one in the room even though I'm not.
myspace.com/brendalreed
Green eyes
People with green eyes have the most passion put into relationships, honest and trust worthy, they have long lasting relationships. People with green eyes are also the most beautiful, are fun and outgoing, love to make people laugh, and random as ever. They long for the touch of another. They are very laid back. People with green eyes are very VERY sexy and very attracted towards other people. LOVES to have fun. They are alwayas up for a challenge. As a fire ball this person will always have you guessing. Yet they draw you in with their amasing personality. THE BEST KISSER YOU WILL EVER MEET. You never want to let go of this person. Tend to cover up true feelings, get scared over relationships.
You are a part of the true biker community. You probably understand the meaning of brotherhood and look after those you ride with as family. Ride Hard - Die Free is not just a fancy patch you bought at a bike rally. You probably ride your bike to Bike Week no matter how far it is. Bikers like you are hard to come by. Keep the shiny side up.
Turn offs:
Guys that think that Drinking is a profession and a job is the hobby.
Interests: WITCHYS WIKKED GRAPHIX
Riding, Fishing, Camping, Reading
Favorite Music:
My favorite band is Blue October. I listen to Rock and Roll, Country, Blues, and just about anything else as long as it isn't rap.
Favorite TV Shows: Sons of Anarchy, House, Lockdown Raw, WEC Cagefighting, NCIS, Fringe, Criminal Minds, Then Ultimate Fighter, The Starter Wife, Ghost Whisperer
Favorite Movies: The Fifth Element, Anything with Tommy Lee Jones, Will Smith, Vin Diesil and many more. The Terminator. A Beautiful Mind. Pirates of the Carribean
Favorite Books: Twilight Series, Stephen King Novels, Harry Potter Series
Favorite Quotes: "It takes hitting rock botom before you can reach for the top" Brandon Hall 2008
"FMHTY" -From My Heart To Yours- Brenda Reed 1994 Saudia Arabia
"For he today who sheds his blood with me shall be my brother" William Shakespeare
"You Can't Kill Me With Kindness, I Don't Buy It"
"Today is the Dawn of a New Day, Let it be Filled with the Hopes and Dreams of a Prosperous Future" Brenda Reed 2009
About Me: IS IT JUST A DECK OF CARDS
Here is a new way to look at a deck of cards!! Please do not delete! You will be glad you didn't.
Deck of Cards
It was quiet that day, the guns and the mortars, and land mines for some reason hadn't been heard.
The young soldier knew it was Sunday, the holiest day of the week.
As he was sitting there, he got out an old deck of cards and laid them out across his bunk.
Just then an army sergeant came in and said, 'Why aren't you with the rest of the platoon?'
The soldier replied, 'I thought I would stay behind and spend some time with the Lord.'
The sergeant said, 'Looks to me like you're going to play cards.'
The soldier said, 'No, sir. You see, since we are not allowed to have Bibles or other spiritual books in this country,
I've decided to talk to the Lord by studying this deck of cards.'
The sergeant asked in disbelief, 'How will you do that?'
'You see the Ace, Sergeant? It reminds me that there is only one God.
The Two represents the two parts of the Bible, Old and New Testaments
The Three represents the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost.
The Four stands for the Four Gospels: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.
The Five is for the five virgins there were ten but only five of them were glorified.
The Six is for the six days it took God to create the Heavens and Earth.
The Seven is for the day God rested after making His Creation.
The Eight is for the family of Noah and his wife, their three sons and their wives -- the eight people God spared from the flood that destroyed the Earth.
The Nine is for the lepers that Jesus cleansed of leprosy. He cleansed ten, but nine never thanked Him.
The Ten represents the Ten Commandments that God handed down to Moses on tablets made of stone.
The Jack is a reminder of Satan, one of God's first angels, but he got kicked out of heaven for his sly and wicked ways and is now the joker of eternal hell.
The Queen stands for the Virgin Mary.
The King stands for Jesus, for he is the King of all kings.
When I count the dots on all the cards, I come up with 365 total, one for every day of the year.
There are a total of 52 cards in a deck; each is a week - 52 weeks in a year.
The four suits represent the four seasons: Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter.
Each suit has 13 cards -- there are exactly 13 weeks in a quarter.
So when I want to talk to God and thank Him, I just pull out this old deck of cards and they remind me of all that I have to be thankful for.'
The sergeant just stood there. After a minute, with tears in his eyes and pain in his heart, he said, 'Soldier, can I borrow that deck of cards?'
Please let this be a reminder and take time to pray for all of our soldiers who are being sent away, putting their lives on the line fighting.
Prayer for the Military.
Please keep the wheel rolling. It will only take a few seconds of your time, but it'll be worth it to read on....
Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands.
Protect them.
Bless them and their families.
I ask this in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
When you receive this, please stop for a moment and say a prayer for our servicemen and women all around the world. There is nothing attached, but this can be very powerful. Of all the gifts you could give a Soldier, prayer is the very best one. In God I Trust!
"Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain."
JUST ONE EXPAMPLE OF KINDNESS
I put my carry-on in the luggage compartment and sat down in my assigned seat. It was going to be a long flight. 'I'm glad I have a good book to read Perhaps I will get a short nap,' I thought. Just before take-off, a line of soldiers came down the aisle and filled all the vacant seats, totally surrounding me. I decided to start a conversation. 'Where are you headed?' I asked the soldier seated nearest to me. 'Petawawa. We'll be there for two weeks for special training, and then we're being deployed to Afghanistan After flying for about an hour, an announcement was made that sack lunches were available for five dollars. It would be several hours before we reached the east, and I quickly decided a lunch would help pass the time.. As I reached for my wallet, I overheard soldier ask his buddy if he planned to buy lunch. 'No, that seems like a lot of money for just a sack lunch. Probably wouldn't be worth five bucks. I'll wait till we get to base ' His friend agreed. I looked around at the other soldiers. None were buying lunch. I walked to the back of the plane and handed the flight attendant a fifty dollar bill. 'Take a lunch to all those soldiers.' She grabbed my arms and squeezed tightly. Her eyes wet with tears, she thanked me. 'My son was a soldier in Iraq ; it's almost like you are doing it for him.' Picking up ten sacks, she headed up the aisle to where the soldiers were seated. She stopped at my seat and asked, 'Which do you like best - beef or chicken?' 'Chicken,' I replied, wondering why she asked. She turned and went to the front of plane, returning a minute later with a dinner plate from first class. 'This is your thanks..' After we finished eating, I went again to the back of the plane, heading for the rest room. A man stopped me. 'I saw what you did. I want to be part of it. Here, take this.' He handed me twenty-five dollars. Soon after I returned to my seat, I saw the Flight Captain coming down the aisle, looking at the aisle numbers as he walked, I hoped he was not looking for me, but noticed he was looking at the numbers only on my side of the plane. When he got to my row he stopped, smiled, held out his hand, an said, 'I want to shake your hand.' Quickly unfastening my seatbelt I stood and took the Captain's hand. With a booming voice he said, 'I was a soldier and I was a military pilot. Once, someone bought me a lunch. It was an act of kindness I never forgot.' I was embarrassed when applause was heard from all of the passengers. Later I walked to the front of the plane so I could stretch my legs. A man who was seated about six rows in front of me reached out his hand, wanting to shake mine. He left another twenty-five dollars in my palm. When we landed I gathered my belongings and started to deplane. Waiting just inside the airplane door was a man who stopped me, put something in my shirt pocket, turned, and walked away without saying a word. Another twenty-five dollars! Upon entering the terminal, I saw the soldiers gathering for their trip to the base. I walked over to them and handed them seventy-five dollars. 'It will take you some time to reach the base. It will be about time for a sandwich. God Bless You.' Ten young men left that flight feeling the love and respect of their fellow travelers. As I walked briskly to my car, I whispered a prayer for their safe return.. These soldiers were giving their all for our country. I could only give them a couple of meals. It seemed so little......
A veteran is someone who, at one point in his life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America' for an amount of 'up to and including My life.'
That is Honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it.'
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