| Metalmaiden's Stats |
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Females and Males
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Friends, riding partners
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Introduction:
I am not adding people just to have the most friends, this is a place where people I enjoy talking to have a place to leave messages and communicate with me.
Nothing more. I don't do drama or bullshit.
If I don't know you, I am probably not adding you.
I know what to say about myself. I pull no punches, if something bothers me, I'll let you know.
That being said I am pretty easy going.
Obviously I am a woman, I have children, I am usually pretty open and very direct, if not totally blunt. Sometimes this is not taken as it's intended, but I don't hold grudges, or resentment either.
I am a computer programmer, and have been for a long time. I'm 40. I can say it and I am not afraid to either, hell if you looked as good as I do at 40, you'd embrace it too! LOL!
I'm a pistol, fired out of a cannon on a good day!
A real adrenaline junkie, if it's not blowing my hair back, it's probably totally fucking boring.
Fast cars, fast music, action packed movies. You'll not catch me watching too many chick flicks, they are just not my speed.
Not really looking for much ...I have all I can manage at the moment, and single parenting and relationships are a completely mixed bag.
Lack of time, coordination, and attention, and they wither on the vine, and I lack time...it's all I can say. Apparently people want things I can no longer provide to a relationship. Like instant responses.
All I would like to have is someone to Go out with once in awhile to new places. I'm not moving anywhere.
My needs are quite simple anymore. I don't need anyone to take care of me. Pay my bills, raise my kids.
No knights in shining armor to rescue me.
I had the fairy tale, complete with the house with white picket fence, it turned into the nightmare from elm street.
It burned and destroyed pieces of me, that I don't think can ever be found. I am not sure, I ever want to find them anyhow. They were weak. I am decidedly not.
I'm unbound, no one's hostage. I stand alone, and I am prepared to stand forever, if that is what it takes.
"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." ~Neil Gaiman

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Turn ons:
Sarcasm, Honesty, Respect, Humor, Tattoos, Nice butts, the way freshly showered skin smells, fast bikes, eating the occasional bug :D Independence! |
Turn offs:
Games, Liars, Cheaters, People with NO loyalty, Control Freaks. |
Ideal:
Intelligent, active, has personal interests beyond couches and sitting on them, whatever those interests maybe. | |
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