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Females and Males
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Friends, riding partners
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A man that takes care of his WOMAN!
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When life gets too complicated.
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A man that is going to protect me, be my best friend and lover.
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In order for romance to thrive in your marriage, you must create a healthy relationship environment for your mate. Such an environment is a protected garden that will free the feminine nature of your wife or the masculine nature of your husband, enabling her or him to blossom and better meet your relationship needs. Without proper care, the romantic nature of your mate will wither and die.
Instead of water, sunshine, and minerals, the elements necessary for the healthy growth of your mate's romantic nature are various attitudes that you must develop and actions that you must take. As you develop these attitudes and take these actions, you will be providing a relationship environment in which your mate can develop specific romantic traits. Your mate has the natural ability to respond to such an environment in a positive way. You need but provide it, then stand back and watch the miracles happen.
They are skills that facilitate positive communication and relationship development. Use them wisely, lovingly, and sincerely. Their proper use is vital for the general health of a romantic relationship.
Romance requires POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT. Master it. Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool that you can use to help your mate better meet your relationship needs, and to generally increase compatibility in your romantic relationship. There are two basic principles of human behavior: 1) behavior is strengthened or weakened by its consequences, and 2) behavior ultimately responds better to positive consequences. Behaviors you want from your mate, but that are inconvenient for them to give you may not last long unless you regularly do something to make them worth the effort. That something may be as simple as an occasional sincere expression of appreciation. Smiles, loving looks and reciprocal acts are other means of providing positive reinforcement to your mate. Positive reinforcement should be conducted continually in a romantic relationship. It is a powerful way that lovers have to encourage desirable behavior in each other.
Romance requires PATIENCE. You have to be patient because you have no other choice. Just as you cannot force a plant to grow and bear fruit, you cannot force change in your mate. You can only provide a healthful environment, communicate your desires in a loving way, and (in extreme circumstances) perhaps set some boundaries. The response is up to your mate. Trying to harvest the fruit before it is ready will only produce disappointment and discouragement. Gardening requires patience. Your mate may not immediately respond to the improved environment you provide. He or she may need time to develop a certain degree of trust in your intentions. Be patient. You are in it for the long term. If you are patient, the rewards will come, and keep coming, in due time.
Romance requires TENDERNESS and FORBEARANCE. Every woman has a little girl inside of her, and every man, a little boy. Never do anything to hurt that little girl or boy. Like a growing plant with fragile new shoots, your mate requires gentleness and tenderness. Hurt feelings often take longer than physical wounds to heal. They cause walls to be built that become barriers to trust and romance. Your spouse should have no reason at all to fear you. Be sure to take the tongue safety course.
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Favorite Quotes:
If you treat a woman like a thoroughbred, you won't have a nag. . . .
A woman is like a garden. If you don't cultivate her, all you'll get is weeds. . . .
Ellen Kreidman
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About Me:
AKC Champion Quality Tiny Texas Diva Chihuahuas Watauga, Texas 76148
Please e-mail me with any inquires you might have.
I've always been a dog lover, especially the little ones. I've been breeding toy dogs for over 18 years. I live in beautiful Watauga, Texas.
I raise happy, healthy, quality babies for you to love and become members of your family. All of my adult dogs meet the standard for the breed & are in good health. My facilities are clean and my dogs are well cared for and loved, I never have a problem with showing anyone around, there are no closed doors here.
I do not sell to pet stores, flea markets, brokers or wholesale my puppies. I also do not sell to breeders that I have not checked out and approve of.
I work very hard to raise these little babies that I'm responsible for bringing into this world, I owe them the best possible homes. I want you to be happy with your new friend, but above all, I want the pup to be happy and safe in their new home.
I don't think a breeders part should stop when you leave with your puppy, I'll be there if you have any questions. The Chihuahua is a good companion dog. Courageous, extremely lively, proud and enterprising, it gives and demands affection. Bold and saucy, it moves swiftly to avoid being stepped on. Chihuahua's are strong-willed, intensely loyal and become very attached to their owners, even to the point of jealousy. They like to lick their owner's faces. It is undeniably suspicious of people except for its owner. When strangers are present, it follows its owner's every move, keeping as close as possible. For some, they may be slightly difficult to train, but they are intelligent, learn quickly, and respond well to proper, gentle (positive reinforcement) training. This breed may snap at teasing children, after all it is too tiny to get away. The Chihuahua must resort to his sharp teeth in self defense. It is not recommended for children. He can be noisy and may require patience to housebreak. Many owners simply paper-train this breed.
Again, thank you for visiting and I look forward to speaking with you.
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