~Bergy~ 

I rarely decline a friend request, unless after reading their profile, I find them "crude, rude and socially-unacceptable" lmfao....I think you know what I mean. I do have a lot of friends...do I talk to everyone...everyday...? No...of course not, but I do not talk to all my friends I grew up with everyday either. Hey, different people are online, different times, for different reasons...so it is always nice to have a variety of friends to talk to with about the various things happening in their lives. Now that I am feeling more "social" I will do my best to get back to anyone who writes me. I am not someone who will delete friends if they do not contact me. People have their own reasons for "requesting and accepting" friends...and to me "to each is own"

However, I do not and WILL not tolerate being disrespected in my daily life and that goes for my "BON" life as well. So please think about that before making disrespectful comments on pics or posting porn on my wall...it will be deleted. I have a teenage daughter who I am raising as a Lady and in such for myself, as well as an example to her, expect to be treated as one. My daughter is truly a gift from God and my world. When I look back on this life one thing I know I will have done well was to be a Good Mother. I may have lost my way at times, but the magnitude of being responsible for another life has always brought me back and kept me grounded. Ooops am I get too "heavy" again? Well, when it comes to my daughter I am DEAD serious about raising her right, being there for her and PROTECTING her. God help anyone that would hurt her...because no one else will.

Just as with my daughter I am fiercely protective of anyone I care for. Family or friends...actually my close friends ARE my family. Some of my friends go back to grade school and I love them to death. I am the type of friend you can call anywhere, anytime and I will be there. It could be to talk for hours going over the same things until we figure it out, Laugh for no reason or to help you hide the body...I will be there!!! My Best friend to this day I met in 2nd grade...wow do the Math that is going on 36 years of friendship! I am very blessed to know she is someone that always has and always will be there for me just the same in return.

As far as my family well, I am very close to them. I am very blessed to have such a close, caring and loving family especially for being such a large group. We are all there for each other always! I have learned about Love, Respect and Dependability especially from my Mother & Fathers relationship. Together for 54 years...my Mother was an incredibly talented and nurturing Woman and my Father is the most Dependable and Respectable Man I know. So many could learn so much from him and his examples as a husband and a father.