Introduction: I'm just a simple man in a complex world. I'm out to find that one special lady in my life. Ok-It's time for "As I See The World". I don't want to sound negative, just real. I think, people come on to these sites, expecting to find "that perfect match." Let's get real here for a minute-No one, is perfect, if we were, we surely won't be on here. I have made mistakes in my life just like the rest and have I also have faults just like the rest of the entire world. If you are REALLY LUCKY, you MIGHT find that one that shoots off stars as soon as your eyes meet, but chances are, it has to build over time. And that, happens only one way. It's just like the old saying, "easy come-easy go." We have all become part of that "throw away" generation. It's an outright shame the way people treat each other. Someone takes the time, and makes the effort, to write an intro email, and MOST people will not even have the common respect to reply, even if only to say "no thank you", so they never know. Anything worth while has to develop over time-you have to work and build on it. I'm not sure if this place is for real or not. I was on here several years back, and I see the SAME faces. I'm not a game player, I'm just wanting to find that one lady. I've been around the block a few times, and I know what I want. I don't need a relationship, I want one, and when I find her, SHE WILL BE IT. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship-those are not fair-someone always gets hurt. I want us to be "close" so that we may build on the relationship. I'm not saying that you need to live in my back yard, just fairly close. I've made a couple of long bike trips this year, and I missed having "my lady" along. I'm a veteran, so I love my country, God and my family. I have 6 of the BEST grandkids anyone could ever ask for. I'm not perfect, and I don't want to be. I may not be the "best" man around, but my grandkids think I am, so that's good enough for me.
On another note: if you're not ready or willing to put forth a little effort in finding out, please don't waste our time. For me, if I'm interested in someone, I want to know all I can, and this will not happen unless we spend time talking and seeing each other. I don't mean to be glued at the hip, but come on---it's really hard to learn anything about someone if you don't spend time talking with each other.
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