Introduction: COME SEE ME AT http://www.myspace.com/bekasback
Welcome, I'm Beka, and I'm glad you're here. As you may see, I not only use my websites to meet and enjoy other people, I use them to educate and bring awareness to some of the most important things in my life and hopefully the lives of others. I have many different things on my profile and I hope you'll take the time to go on down and check them all out. I think you'll be surprised... ;) If you get into poetry, check out my blogs. I'm a published author and I write about true life things that have happened in my life, and the lives of my loved ones. I love to talk to other people from all around and I love to make new friends. Come on in, check it out, and make sure you say hello. I get a few emails on here so, if I don't get right back to you, it won't be long and you'll get a reply. MUAH!!!!! I look forward to speaking with you all...
P.S. I don't get to look at the comments left on my pics very often but I want to thank you all very much for what you've posted. MUAH!!!!!!!!! More to come...
PS... Go on down, check out my profile, and give me a shout... I'd love to get to know you... _____________________________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________________ Well let's see... I have the most wonderful boys I could ever ask for. Steven, he'll be 21 in August and is the most gorgeous thing alive, and my baby is Aaron, he'll be 17 in November and is absolutely perfect. I couldn't be more proud of my boys... And another good thing, it's like having free full time bodyguards anytime I need em, I love it. ;)
Now then, about me personally, I have a degree in Criminal Justice, I thought I was dying while I was getting it :) , and I do the best I can to help "Victims" become "Survivors". I'm the survivor of numerous sexual assaults, domestic violence, and a double rape at age 18. One of my goals here is to help at least one person realize, you CAN find yourself again... Sometimes things make you feel like "YOU" are not even in there anymore, but you are. Never give up trying to be you again... It may take time, but it's possible. Sometimes shit just happens, no rhyme nor reason, it just happens. So don't ever give up on yourself, because when you do, the whole world will simply follow suit... I personally live by the the "Survivor Psalm..."I have been victimized. I was in a fight that was not a fair fight. I did not ask for the fight. I lost. There is no shame in losing such fights. I have reached the stage of survivor and am no longer a slave of victim status. I look back with sadness rather than hate. I look forward with hope rather than despair. I may never forget, but I need not constantly remember. I WAS a victim. I am AM survivor." And another one I love is the "Serenity Prayer"..."God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference". They keep me going, try it... :) Well, that's about it for me. I have a lot of different interests, just scroll on down, and see how many there are. ;) I'm glad you're here and give me a shout... MUAH!!!! I'd love to get to know each and every one of you. I get a few emails in here so, if I don't get right back to you, I'll get back to you ASAP. Come and see me anytime... If you get angry because you don't get a reply as quickly as you think you should, I apologize for that, and hope you don't take it personal... MUAH to you all...
Be Safe, Ride Hard, and Live Like You Were Dying... L&R Beka
Turn ons:
Confidence, Intelligence, A good sense of humor, The drive to better yourself more and more every day, And of course, MOTORCYCLES... ;)
Turn offs:
Drama, Snobs, Stuck-up Bitches, Stupidity, Laziness, and most of all,,, Smart-Asses who think they're the shit...
Ideal:
I'm not sure he's even out there... :(
Interests: My interests are long walks, long rides in the mountains, quiet evenings with that special someone, candlelit dinners, and just being held on to. I love to be treated like a lady, even though, I can be a little unladylike on occasion. ;) There's nothing like the feeling of a Harley between my legs. I can't get enough of that. :) I love strong arms and a soft shoulder. Purple roses are my favorite, and of course, diamonds are my best friends. ;)
Favorite Music:
I listen to almost any kind of music. Country would be my favorite I suppose. Tim McGraw cannot be beat...
Favorite TV Shows: Anything Law and Order, especially SVU...
Favorite Movies: From Gone With The Wind to The Color Purple...
Favorite Books: The Bible
Favorite Quotes: "Live Like You Were Dying"
About Me: I have two wonderful, absolutely gorgeous, overly protective boys. :) One is 20 and the other 16. I have a degree in Criminal Justice and would love to someday go into a field where I can help women and children that have been sexually or domestically assaulted. Helping people go from "Victim" to "Survivor" is my main goal in life.... I love to workout and stay in shape, even though I have to make myself sometimes, and I love a person who does the same... I guess that's it for me now. I'll be back soon...
Beka-Come See Me- I'm In Need Of My Biker Friends- 's Albums
Beka-Come See Me- I'm In Need Of My Biker Friends- 's Garage
1978 Harley-Davidson sportser My Precious... It has many mods and many more to come. The paint is soon to be purple, it's going to kickass, and there's going to be many more changes. I love My Precious... :)