BlondieBehindU :81 SPTR: CREATIONS BY DAWN :FFF S/H Very Close To Buying My Own Bike ! : I am really wanting to get back on my own bike again ((Harley Sportster *for Now*))
Santa Rosa: Wine Country: Sonoma County: NorCal:, CA
Country:
United States
Last Online:
Today
Interested in:
Males
Age:
49
Ride:
Yes
Own a bike:
No
Status:
Single
Looking for:
Friends, relationships, riding partners
Religion:
.·:*:Almighty God Himself:*:·. (For He Is The Only Judge)
Drink:
Drink Socially
Introduction:
Welcome, Nice To Have You Stop By, Enjoy Your Visit & The View & The Music - Dawn -
'Angel' :Blondie: "BlondieBehindU"
"If you stand for nothing you will fall for anything"
I really appreciate having "It".
It has been in different forms. It has taken some time to become what it is. It has given times of comfort to my children. It has diminished in quantity when I have been ill. It has been with me my whole life. It has a status in movies, songs, and books. It has appeared in many different events in my life. It has been in the dark of night. It has been in the light of day. It has seen a razors edge. It has felt the comfort of touch. It has been the topic of conversation. It has not defined who I am. It has a nickname. It has kept me warm. It has been wrapped tightly. It has experienced many elements of earth.
Location: Nor Cal: Wine Country: Santa Rosa, CA ("Location, Location, Location")
Country: United States (I'm a good ole Country Girl)
Interested in: Males (And so much more in life)
Age: 49 (I feel & live like I am 19)
Ride: Oh Hell Yeah (Behind U)
Own a bike: No (Not at the moment)
Status: Divorced/Single (It's not a bad thing)
Looking for: Friends (The Real Type) Relationships (What are those?) Riding Partners (Behind U) (Looking for: Rocks & U Of Course) How can I be "Blondie Behind U"? Without U?
Religion: Almighty God Himself: (For He Is The Only One, Who Has The Right To Judge Me)
Drink: Drink Socially (It's a wonder I don't drink like a fish by now)
Smoke: Hell No (Never in my life)
Drugs: Hell No (I'm high enough...lol)
(Some days I wonder how I have made it this far without them, But "Medicated" for YOUR Protection...lol)
Honesty is the human quality of communicating and acting truthfully related to truth as a value.
This includes listening, and any action in the human repertoire — as well as speaking.
Superficially, honesty means simply stating facts and views as best one truly believes them to be.
It includes both honesty to others, and to oneself and about one's own motives and inner reality.
Honesty, at times, has the ability to cause misfortune to the person who displays it.
I'm One Tall Blonde, Flirtatious...However Very Loyal, Riding On The Back, Leo "BlondieBehindU".
I have ridden all my life, from the age of 8 years old.
My first motorcycle ride was on the back of one of my Mother's guy friend’s bike,
"Hog / Chopper / Scooter"
A Kind Man, Named Sonny Barger, In 1968, in Guerneville California. (Sonny and the other riders were From Oakland California)
We started out from the pool hall,
That my Mother managed for the owner, a kind man, Named Rich Dickerson, (Rich has passed on) Downtown on Main Street, in Guerneville California.
My Mother also regulated the money for a restaurant, In Guerneville, for a friend of hers, By the name of Ed Bennet, The owner of “Mrs. Fry’s“.
"Mrs. Fry's" is where my Mother & Sonny, & Sonny's "Rider Friends" first became acquainted.
Moreover, that is when my Mother and 2 of my younger (4 & 6 years old) sisters and I (8 years old), Became good friends with Sonny, & The other riders from Oakland. (Some have passed on, Rest In Peace Brothers)
I started to ride dirt bikes in the Russian River area, After my first ride with Sonny, On the back of Sonny's Bike.
I had no idea at the time that the first ride with Sonny, and the events that took place during those years Would change my life forever.
The days of my youth, during our friendships with Sonny and the other riders, taught me many fine qualities and how to live by a certain code of honor, To this very day.
Not only am I intelligent, moreover, "Street Wise". Additionally, I became very street wise, At an extremely early age. I saw life for what it truly is. I do know how to handle myself, and certain situations.
“Faster, faster, faster, until the thrill of speed overcomes the fear of death…”
When it comes to my "Need For Speed” for all these years, Being on the road for hours, days at a time, And the wind in my hair and the sun on my face, This has become even more important, As my life moves forward, And has given me even more freedom, Than non-riders can ever possibly imagine. I am very thankful for what I have lived through to this point, Both the good and the bad, It is these trials and rewards, Which has contributed to the Woman I am. In addition, I look forward to the years to come of riding numerous roads...
“Sometimes The Only Safe Thing To Do, Is To Take a Chance”
“My husband (Steve McQueen) told me if I was ever stranded On the side of the road, broke down, or in trouble, and if a club Member came by, accept their help. Trust them. Nothing Bad would come of it. They’d do me right. He even Went on to say that if the politicians ran the Country like the club ran its chapters, we’d All be much freer. I think he liked their Honor System and the fact that with Bike riders, a hand shake was a Handshake, and a deal Was a deal” (Barbara McQueen)
I also ride Quads, Etc. (Getting back on to Dirt Bikes too, I have had to re-learn to ride bikes & etc., after my memory loss) (4 of my 5 children ride as well)
My children's names and ages are as follows:
RIAHNA* JAN 13 1979= (30 IN 2009)
DUSTIN* JULY 13 1979= (29 IN 2008)
JESSICA* NOV 17 1982= (26 IN 2008) (Jessica Passed Away)
SARAH* AUG 17 1983= (25 IN 2008)
JEFF* JULY 15 1985= (23 IN 2008)
+ The wonderful spouses of my children, Which are also my children, dear to my heart.
They have given me 13 Loveable GRANDCHILDREN... I Love All Of Them Dearly
“Son Of My Son”
Son of my Son, so sweet, so precious, just a little dear Great big smiles, a bit of talking, his laughter I long to hear
Son of my Son, completely unique, One of a kind, Big bright eyes, soft blonde hair, tender kiss on his cheek, My Son, a baby, comes to mind
Son of my son, just a little guy, not quite two, Learning to talk, boy can he walk, not yet able to tie his shoe
Son of my Son, full of life, with times of being ill Never giving us strife, He, living a long life, is our will
Son of my Son, with all his tiny clothes, short little jeans Before we know it, he’ll be growing into his teens
Son of my Son, he was given the name Blake Angelo Arroyo on August 29 2006 His given name, handed down by his father, three grandfathers, So you see, a bit of a mix
Son, Son of my Son, whom I miss, love both quite dearly This poem was wrote out of the love for my Son, Son of my Son From the moment your lives begun I have loved you both sincerely
Riding on the back of a bike (Harley / Chopper) Is outrageously fun for me.
I have been riding ever since my first ride. I love to ride. I have a deep passion for it.
I will Ride till I no longer have a heartbeat. Riding is what gives me a happy heartbeat. Riding sets my spirit free to no degree. "BlondieBehindU"
"Riding & Rocking" (Rock Hunting) Yes, I have done both at the same time lol
Welcome All Of You Friendly Riders
"WE BELIEVE"
We believe in going our own way, no matter which way the rest of the world is going. We believe in bucking the system that’s built to smash individuals like bugs on a windshield. Some of us believe in the man upstairs, all of us believe in sticking it to the man down here. We believe in the sky and we don’t believe in a sunroof. We believe in freedom. We believe in dust, tumbleweeds, buffalo, mountain ranges and riding off in to the sunset. We believe in saddlebags and we believe that cowboys had it right. We believe in refusing to knuckle under to anyone. We believe in wearing black because it doesn’t show dirt or weakness. We believe the world is going soft and were not going along with it. We believe in motorcycle rallies that last a week. We believe in roadside attractions, gas station hot dogs and finding out what’s over the next hill. We believe in rumbling engines, pistons the size of garbage cans, fuel tanks designed in 1936, freight train sized headlights, chrome and custom paint. We believe in flames and skulls. We believe life is what you make it and we make it one hell of a ride. We believe the machine you sit on can tell the world exactly where you stand. We don’t care what everyone else believes.
Thank You For Checking Out My BON Page
~SURRENDER~
A WARM KISS TO MY LIPS LEAVING ME LONGING FOR MORE
RUSHES OF ELECTRICITY THROUGH MY VEINS STRAIGHT TO MY INNER CORE
GENTLE STROKES ACROSS MY GOLDEN LOCKS YOUR TONGUE STREAMING DOWN MY SKIN IRRESISTIBLE HEAT BETWEEN THE SHEETS ACTS DRENCHED IN SIN
GASPING FOR MY NEXT BREATH SWEAT FLOWING ALONG MY CURVES SENSATIONS MAKING MY HEART POUND INSTANTLY TO MY NERVES
YOUR WORDS OF DOMINANCE DECLARE MY EVERY MOVE MY MOANS MY QUIVERS REVEALING TO YOU I APPROVE
PUSHING AGAINST MY THIGHS WITH YOUR MASCULINE THRUST SENDING SOMETHING INTERNAL SO ROBUST
I LOSE ALL COMPOSURE ALL SELF CONTROL YOU ARE IN COMMAND OVER MY SOUL
YOU FEED ME WITH EROTIC PLEASURE TO THE VERY END PASSION WARMTH SEXUAL DESIRE YOU EXTEND
WITH ALL YOUR SPLENDOR TO YOU I SURRENDER
YOU SUCCEED IN SENDING ME TO THE HIGHEST PEEK WITH YOUR HARD MUSCULAR PHYSIQUE
MY BODY FEELS YOUR EXCITEMENT FOLLOWED BY YOUR RELEASE
ULTIMATELY US ENTRANCED WITH SATISFACTION ENCIRCLED IN PEACE
Moreover, I have wrote many other Poems, Which are also published.
You can read some of my Poetry, In my BLOGS via BON. (If you care to?)
I am an Artist, Poet, Writer, Web Designer, & Photographer...
But, so much more,
I'm Happy & Free Spirited!
A Gentleman from BON sent the preceding compliments in regards To my work and I placed it here with his permission. I felt his words were very touching as well as heartfelt. Thank you again Michael.
"You are so poetic with your words, art and photos.
While your body glows and arouses the sensual nature of your beauty... striking the eyes and hearts of men whose passion grows exponentially with each look at your lovely face and well-endowed body, stimulating their flame for you. While your works work on the minds enflaming a stronger desire for you. Your art feast the soul and ones appreciation of your talents that reveals your inner passion"
"You thrill me" Michael
I'm happy that so many of you, have let me know, That you have enjoyed my Poetry, Photography & Art…
Thank You Kindly Warmly Dawn Angel Blondie "BlondieBehindU" Whichever name you refer to me as...
PLEASANTLY FRIENDLY, UNDERSTANDING AND LOVING, VERY KIND...
Compassionate, Intelligent, Creative,
Artistic, Imaginative, Versatile,
Passionate, Outgoing, Fun Loving, Brutally Honest.
I have a really good sense of humor,
You will almost always see a smile on my face,
I love to ride:
I love to smile:
I love to laugh:
I love to dance:
Belly; Country; Salsa; Lap; Hip Hop; West Coast Swing; Exotic; Erotic;
"What We Do Does Not Define Who We Are, What Does Define Us Is How Well We Rise After Falling"
One question.... Is your seat?
"Bubble Butt BlondieBehindU Bearable"? lmao
Please do not mistake my kindness for weakness
I Am Direct...
If you read to the end, you will come to understand the reasons for some of my out looks on life, love, happiness, death & murder
If you were to ask a question that I think is none of your concern,
I will tell you so.
There may be times I am discontented with an issue,
Even though I am an easygoing person, there are things that will cause me some concern.
Another words… " Piss me the hell off "
"Are you still reading, still with me?" lol You're doing well then.
If you are... Then you will see I am open & honest with whom I am, In my thoughts, my feelings...
I find that using choice curse words (Sometimes) Helps me to get it out of my system, more so after Jessica was murdered, because I hate having to bite my tongue, when I am not happy about something.
(I'm just being honest)
Too stressful and stress can cause cancer. I would know, after having it twice in my life.
Something on my mind:
I come right out with it, Get it off my chest right then and there, No second-guessing how I feel, About anything that concerns me, My life, whatever the case may be.
I can be very polite with a person who is irritating a loved one or a friend, me. Many times I am.
Sometimes I am very blunt with rude people. (& Liars) If I find that the person is into playing head or heart games, They are no longer a value to my life. I do not have room in my personal life for such nonsense. I will no longer allow them to be a part of my personal life.
There are many of life’s experiences that have painfully, seriously taught me the realities of life.
A Devastating Death & Memory Loss:
I suffer from memory loss, after the horrifying murder of my 20-year-old Daughter, Sweet Jessica.
(My memory is becoming stronger daily)
After her body was released from Wichita Kansas to Santa Rosa California, and I was able to see her, That is when I lost my memory.
The shock of it all was just way too much.
My memory has started to allow me to regain some of my abilities, but not all. I'm working on that.
I had been able to do many other things in life, Such as speak 7 languages. There are a few I can get by with now. (My Sign Language skills are not too bad)
I was able to view any line-up of numbers or read any material and it was embedded in my memory,
Being able to drive now is a very big relief. I was not able to drive for about 1 & 1/2 years, Due to getting lost and not recalling the correct streets in order to go from place to place.
I try not to stress about what has happened, Along with the stress of many issues, That is unresolved concerning her murder, Moreover, I deal and cope with it daily.
If you have contact with me, and I do not recall something about you or our conversation, Now you will understand why.
Thank you for your understanding.
The Photo (In Album) in green, is me at My Daughter Jessica's Grave on May 14 2008 (Jessica Was Murdered on June 1 2003)
Photo of Jessica, 20 yrs of age, just days before she was murdered, the last photo that captured her sweetness. (In Album)
Rest In Peace Sweet Jessica I Love You & Miss You Deeply
I live my life knowing good and well that some things are just not worth holding onto. It is so much easier to try to live with less stress, with a free spirit, Warm & happy heart, An open mind, clean soul
Just to let you friends know … I am usually logged in, But NOT always at the P.C.
Please do not think I am ignoring you! (I'm not)
Thank you for your entire Photo comments, Wall comments,
In addition, for all of your Emails.
Muah ~ Dawn ~ ' Angel ' "Blondie" (BlondieBehindU)
I'll tell you right off the bat....at the Get Go.
I really like Country Music, and can't hold still when I hear it! Well, that's with most music.
Because I love to dance and dance often.
If you don't care for Country Music... you might not care for me... (Wink) I Love Music!!! I also enjoy other types of music....
Rock, Blues, Oldies, and a mix of others. !!!! NOT RAP !!!! [I cannot deal with Rap. I do not feel its Music.]
I am French Canadian & Cherokee Indian 5'9" 49 Years Old
I was an August Baby... "Yippy Skippy" Saturday August 2, ! Let's Party ! PROFILEROCKER.COM YES, I am a Leo
Carry my Height/Weight Comfortably, 36 DD, Small Waist, Nice Backside, Long legs,
If you choose to make a reference to my body... Here are 2 words that I hate:
"TITS" & "TITTIES"
I am not a prude by any means...
(The 2 words are big TURN OFF's for me)
Call The "Girls" Anything, But Those 2 WORDS, And we will get along just fine Gentlemen, (I'm just being honest)
!!!THANK YOU!!! Sweeties
Muah
Long Blonde Hair Bright Blue Eyes, Bright Big Smiles,
“Love knows no limits and true friendships last a lifetime“
These videos are actually, truly authentic. (check snopes.com "Christian the lion" Link below) http://www.snopes.com/photos/animals/christian.asp “The Lion Hug”
(Tears Running Down My Face)
More Details
Christian the lion
Christian was a lion purchased in 1969 by two Australians living in London, John Rendall and Anthony 'Ace' Bourke (erroneously cited in a Daily Mail article as Ace Berg) from Harrods department store.
They had discovered him for sale in Harrods' exotic pets department and, concerned for his conditions and fate, decided to buy him.
Relocation and reunion
Rendall, Bourke and their girlfriends Jennifer Mary and Unity Jones cared for the lion until it was a year old.
Christian's increasing size and the cost of looking after him led them to the realization that they could not keep him in London for much longer.
The solution came when Bill Travers and Virginia McKenna, stars of the film Born Free, visited Rendall and Bourke's furniture shop, where Christian spent his days.
They suggested that they ask the assistance of George Adamson, the Kenyan conservationist who, together with his wife Joy, was the subject of their movie.
Adamson agreed to help them rehabilitate Christian into the wild at his compound at Kora National Reserve.
Adamson slowly introduced Christian to an older lion 'Boy' and subsequently to a female cub Katiana in order to form the nucleus of a new pride.
Tragedy struck several times: Katiana was possibly devoured by crocodiles at a watering hole. Another female was killed by wild lions.
Boy was so injured that he lost his ability to socialize with other lions and humans, and was shot through the heart by Adamson after fatally wounding a man.
That left Christian as the only surviving member of the original pride.
Adamson continued his work, and over the course of a year the pride established itself in the region around Kora, with Christian as the head of the pride started by Boy.
Christian with London owners John Rendall and Anthony Bourke Christian with George Adamson at Kora National Reserve.
When Rendall and Bourke were informed by Adamson of the successful result in 1971, they travelled to Kenya to pay the visit to Christian that was filmed in the documentary Christian, The Lion at World's End.
According to the documentary, Adamson warned Rendall and Bourke that Christian may not remember them, but the film shows a first cautious lion suddenly leaping onto the two men, wrapping his arms around their shoulders and nuzzling their faces.
The documentary also shows the female lions, Mona and Lisa, and a foster cub named Supercub welcoming the two men because of the influence of Christian.
Rendall details a final reunion that occurred in 1974. By this time Christian was successfully defending his own pride, had cubs of his own and was about twice the size he was in the 1971 reunion video.
Adamson warned them that it would most likely be a wasted trip as he had not seen Christian's pride for nine months.
However they discovered when they reached Kora that Christian and his pride had returned to Adamson's compound the day before their arrival.
Rendall describes the visit he, Bourke, and George Adamson made: "We called him and he stood up and started to walk towards us very slowly.
Then, as if he had become convinced it was us, he ran towards us, threw himself on to us, knocked us over, knocked George over and hugged us, like he used to, with his paws on our shoulders."
The reunion lasted until the next morning when everyone went to bed. According to Rendall that was the last anyone saw of Christian.
Hi, You are very welcome, Thank you for the Birthday Gift. Meaning your message to me here.
If the videos placed a tender feeling in your heart?
Then...
I am happy that you were touched by the Lion Hug videos, and that they brought a smile and or tears to your face.
If you had already seen the videos, then I hope they brought back the memory of Christian’s love and his respect for two loving humans.
We all need to be given love in one way or another in this world filled with so many unhappy things in great multitudes.
I spent my entire birthday staying home solo, and putting together the “Lion Hug” message with love and hugs from my heart.
I sent it out to over 800 individuals on B. O. N. who I consider to be my friends.
The idea that an animal which has no concept in a human capacity of any due gratitude toward another human for the love that individual (s) has shown in the way we all should, but unfortunately do not show in the highest of love toward all mankind, is completely mesmerizing to me.
I can only hope I would be able to be a loving human in the way those Lions (& Lioness & *Pride*) Were to the two gentlemen, that had Christian in their lives for a period of his sweet life.
The fact that Christian had a complete recall of the two gentlemen and love in his heart for them is extremely over whelming for me.
The fact that you took the time to respond in writing to me and thanking me for the “Lion Hug” means the world to me,
And with each response back that I have received has given my heart happiness, and a big smile on my face,
Not to mention the best birthday present other than of course the fact Blake was able to leave the children’s hospital and return home.
Thank you for asking about Blake…(Me too)
Blake is doing quite well at the moment.
I wonder how many will keep the memory in their minds and hearts of the “Lion Hug” story and use that tender situation in their everyday lives?
With Love & Respect...
Your Friend Blondie
From Jeans to Stockings to Chaps
Divorced 13+ Years Divorce Papers For Proof...
There are "Fakes" and people who do not tell the truth on the web. (See Example Below)
Men looking to cheat on their Woman, Wife, Fiancée, Girlfriend, Partner, Significant 'Other, And nothing will ever erase the cheating.
(YES, Women cheat too!)
Forgiveness is the only action, If you can truly "Forgive" the person, and "Forget"!
My Children (5) 4 are married adults, (1 Daughter brutally murdered @ 20 yrs of age, On June 1 2003), & I have 13 Grandchildren,
Non-Smoker, No abuse issues with drugs or heavy drinking. (I enjoy a Cold Beer / Glass of Moscato / Fruity Girly Drinks / Marg's & Daq's).
Practice good dental & body hygiene from top to bottom, and wear a nice fragrance. I Maintain a Fresh & Clean Mind, Body, Spirit, & Soul
Friends to possible future L T R
If the Chemistry/Personality/Disposition/Interest exists between us.
I do not have any sexually transmitted diseases or substance abuse issues. Nor do I have any negative sexual intimacy factors. I do not accept or play head or heart games... Just not my style, Not how I treat others!
My Time Is My Own
I am a Published Poet, I enjoy letting out my true thoughts & feelings...
I am a Sold Artist, I love painting...
I am a Writer, I don't think I will ever be at a loss for words...
I am a Web Designer, I truly love designing graphics & images, etc.
I am a Photographer, I really enjoy Photography and Shoot a wide range of subjects…. As you can see by my photo albums via BON (Some Published).
The above is not the complete source of my income, Even though I do have a modest, but comfortable lifestyle, And take good care of myself, my life. I am able to build your BON page professionally. I have built BON pages for BON members.
My credit is in excellent condition. I live alone, and am happy in my present environment…and I love animal’s….little people (Children), Mother Earth.
One point I would like to stress, Is that I do not have a desire to have more Children; It is no longer biologically possible.
"Horses To Heels To Harleys"
I love the open road and quaint little towns, Along with large cities and wonderful country living.
Enjoy shopping at times, Tools, I have my own collection of tools, power tools. As well as walking through Flea Markets (Buying tools for one).
My interest includes Harleys, Boats, Water is one of my favorites, Quads, Dirt Bikes, Shooting Guns
Think I'm a Good Aim ? Good Shot?
Ask "Whatever" got past me.
Oh' ya can't,
The "Whatever" is no longer able to respond.
Looks like nothing got past me.
That just about sums it up, wouldn’t you say?
Horses, Rock Hunting, Fishing, Fast Cars, NASCAR, Web Design...
BBQ's, Picnics,
I do not Diet, Moreover, I am a Great Cook and Love to Cook, When I am in the Mood to do so.
Dressing Up Or Not... Whatever Feels Good / Right At The Time.
I do not worry about where I am…
I have fun, a great time, enjoy being out, No matter the location or the attendance.
I am not one to worry if a hair is out of place....
I am all about just being me, Nothing less, nothing more.
I am not the Miss Prissy type.
I take great care of myself,
Additionally, have a Womanly way with an edge.
First & Foremost, I do know how to carry myself in all aspects of life.
Ok… In this video, a friend of mine and myself, Are on his ranch playing “Hide & Seek” On the Polaris and the Gator, After we had been out shooting guns. Moreover, my friend was trying to find me, (For a long period of time) He had rode right past me, and he had no clue, As to where I was hiding on the Polaris. (It was a really great hiding place)
When I knew he could NOT find me, I came out from hiding, and he wanted to know where I was hiding, It was such a good hiding place, I would NOT tell him where I was.
That day on the Ranch, was so much fun!
This Video is of a *Wheelie, (We Did Wheelies In The East Bay & In Nevada At The 2007 Street Vibrations Event)
Me on the back of a Custom Built Harley Road King Bagger
In the parking lot of "Cycle Gear" in Santa Rosa California, on Santa Rosa Avenue.
(Cycle Gear shot the Video)
All the exciting adventures that the water offers in all its forms.
Fine Dining, Evening Out Dancing, Music,
Playing My Djembe Drum, and Other Instruments, Singing,
Midnight Strolls. I Love Music. Having fun in life.
(I am NOT a Coffee connoisseur) I LOVE TO SHOOT POOL. I LOVE TO RIDE ON HARLEYS, (BehindU) DIRT BIKES, QUADS, I own my own Dirt and Street Gear.
WATER, BOATS, THE OCEAN, BLAZING FIRES, OUTDOORS, KISSING, CANDLES, ROMANCE, PICNICS JUST ABOUT ANYWHERE. (Yes, Some of this is repeated more than once, lol)
"Sitting beneath the moon and stars, Looking into your eyes with a roaring fire behind us, Transforming our desires into a sultry silhouette".
My Personality: Is easy going, to the point, and a no nonsense attitude. I am Intelligent, fun, loving, creative, outgoing,
I know what I want and do not want
I am very at ease in a crowd of strangers and will by no means leave without making a few new friends along the way.
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming,
!!!!!!WOW!!!!!!
! What A Ride ! "Yee' Haw"
My Love & Support Of 40 years, And many years to come, For 81 Worldwide RED & WHITE 1968 ~ 2008
I'm a happy person inside, and that is displayed on the outside...
I am a Woman, who loves to ride, and has her own riding gear,
From head to toe, And her own touring pack for long rides to overnight stays. .
I am...
Adaptable and Versatile, Communicative and Witty, Intellectual and Eloquent, Youthful and Lively, Intelligent and Happy, Casual and Comfortable, Elegant and Sophisticated.
I LOVE TO ROCK HUNT, Yes, Rock Hunt...lol
RIDE QUADS / DIRT BIKES / MOTORCYCLES HARLEYS, HORSES, OUTDOORS, PAINT, WRITE POETRY, COOK, B-B-Q, NASCAR, I LOVE TO SHOOT POOL CREATE ART IN MANY FORMS, WEB DESIGN, WEB GRAPHICS, I LOVE ANIMALS, MUSIC, DANCING, FLEA MARKETS, MY COMPUTERS, MY I-POD, MY I-PHONE, LOVE TO WATCH MOVIES AT HOME OR IN THE THEATERS, ICE CREAM, CANDLES, ROMANCE, BLAZING FIRES INDOORS, ROARING FIRES OUTDOORS, WATER WITH ALL OF Its FORMS, THE OCEAN, PICNICS JUST ABOUT ANYWHERE.
I AM
PLEASANTLY FRIENDLY, KIND, COMPASSIONATE,
UNDERSTANDING AND LOVING...
Passionate, outgoing, fun loving, brutally honest.
If you do not want to hear the truth, Then please do not ask.
Please do not mistake my kindness for weakness
SPOONING LEADS TO... FORKING!
One Man who would be happy to have found an individual such as myself. One who would not take a woman for granted, and wants the same in return.
My Turn On’ s Concerning You (Not Carved In Stone)
A Man who loves to ride anytime
A Man who knows a good Woman when he crosses her path
A Man who can sing, and or play a musical instrument
A Man who has veins which are very visible in his hands and or forearms
A Man who is not afraid of being sexually assertive (If / When a sexual relationship is right)
A Man who can step out dressed up or dressed down
A Man, who smells good, wears a Men's Fragrance no matter if he is dressed or not
A Man who is respectful
One day, maybe I will meet one special Man,
Who will influence a change in my decision of remaining single?
If we were united in love,
And trust was our protection from elements that can tear love apart,
A love with layers of respect, it would all be complete and fit without a daily struggle, Come together the way the earth, moon, sun, and stars are able to all rotate in one harmonious goal.
The Relationship
A Man & Woman who could be complete and happy inside their heart and soul, Because we were together and we could stand strong together against anything.
I believe that being comfortable in silence with someone is just as important as communicating with one another.
MY ANALOGY OF A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP:
LOVE= GIVES RESPECT TO ONE ANOTHER
QUALITY= GIVES EACH 100 % + MORE
APPRECIATION= GIVES THOUGHTFULNESS WHICH LEADS TO HAPPINESS
HONESTY= GIVES OPEN COMMUNICATION
TRUST= GIVES EACH COMPLETION
BEST FRIENDS= GIVES A SPECIAL & STRONG LOVE
COMMITMENT= LEAVES NO DOUBT
THIS IS A FINE COMBINATION IN THE RELATIONSHIP I WOULD TREASURE WITH A MAN I WOULD ADORE.
The following is an article I found in my research on this topic. It is one view on this issue. In some cases the truth hurts.
Why do men cheat?
If there is a strong relationship at home with the husband and wife, I sincerely doubt if cheating will ever occur in their lives. I still believe that women are the ones who control What happens inside the house and not vice versa. They are actually the foundation of any home. It's not the men! Men are the providers, securities, workers, and what have you. But most definitely, not the person who keeps the family together. Notice the reasons included here... All because their women have done something that initiate the cheating. Take all that out and no man will ever cheat on their wives. Those who will are NOT MEN!
Nevertheless…men do enjoy sex…a lot…and not always with their partner! (Some Women Like it just as much if not more)
Here are their Top 10 reasons…
They are in no particular order but we all know what guys say is the number one reason that they cheat. Remember ladies, the jokes about sex ending when marriage begins, wouldn't be funny if there weren't some truth to them!
1. Not getting enough at home! Women tend to get caught up in "life" and sex gets put on the "back burner". She may be bent over helping the kids tie their shoes but he's still looking at her "nice ass". God…is that all they think about?
2. It's reassuring to know that he's still "got it". Time has a way of making us all feel less sexy and desirable. A little forbidden rendezvous can be a real shot to a sagging male ego.
3. The wife just isn't physically appealing anymore. Face it; women do tend to let themselves go. Often they get too busy raising their families and neglect themselves. They are too tired to put on make up or do those thigh slimming exercises. The result? A sexy new secretary and whatdayaknow…"Honey…I have to work late"!
4. Sex at home is boring. The wife doesn't like to try new things (or old things - namely, blow jobs!). To men, variety is the spice of life and he may have some sexual urges that his wife is not willing to fulfill. He may have some ideas that he would rather his wife didn't know about. Can you say "manage-a-trios"?
5. He just couldn't say no. The woman was hot and all over him. It just seemed like a once in a lifetime opportunity…too good to pass up. This is where the phrase "thinking with their little head" came from!
6. The wife/partner just isn't fun anymore. She worries, she nags, she fusses and they fight all of the time. He cheats to "get away from it all".
7. He just doesn't love his wife anymore. And just how do you tell someone that tactfully? It is easier to have an affair than it is to deal with the pain and emotional upheaval of such a confession. On the other hand…if he is caught cheating? Well, the door is then opened for a speedy exit!
8. The thrill of the chase is exhilarating. Some men are truly addicted not only to the act of sex itself, but also to the hunt. They thrive on the rush they get when they are able to conquer even the toughest "ice queen". It's not about love; it's about control and winning!
9. They cheat because they can. Many men know that their wives are insecure and dependent on them. They also know that low self esteem and a fear of being alone will keep her "in place" and "at home" no matter what, or who they do. So, why not? Variety - remember?
10. And finally, men cheat to get even! It is an absolute blow to the male ego for his sexual prowess to be in question. Why else would a woman cheat on him? His own affair as a result, serves two purposes, revenge and reassurance of manhood. There you have it…the Top 10 reasons why men say that they cheat on their wives or partners.
Are any of them "Excusable"? Mmmm…a couple…maybe? (Although most women won't agree).
Are any of them "Preventable"? Of course!
My Time Is My Own
I will always have time for a loving relationship...
I am not one to allow other outside influences to take precedence over the Relationship I would deeply value.
The person I would be interested in would have fine qualities both inside and out. You would find joy with who I am on the inside, along with my outer appearance.
The charismatic chemistry I am looking for is not one to be found easily; Chemistry is something I am very persistent in finding with a great deal of Patients. This endeavor is what keeps me single and somewhat searching.
What makes you smile?
WAY TOO MANY TO LIST
What POSITIVE things would your ex say about you?
I DON'T CARE WHAT HE WOULD SAY, (POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE), *Even though he is a wonderful Man* MOREOVER, I AM NOT THE SAME PERSON NOW, AS I WAS, WHEN I WAS MARRIED TO HIM, I am my own Woman, with an edge.
What do you do for fun?
ANYTHING & EVERYTHING, THAT DOES NOT BRING HARM TO OTHERS OR MYSELF
Name five things you can't live without
GOD ~ OXYGEN ~ WATER ~ FOOD ~ HEAT
How do you like to spend a rainy day?
NEXT TO HIM
What would you consider a romantic evening?
BEING ANYWHERE WITH THE MAN I SHARE LOVE, TRUST, RESPECT, & CHEMISTRY WITH
What are your best traits you have to offer a partner?
TOO MANY TO LIST
What are you afraid of?
NOTHING … (I don't care for spiders and falling from high places, liars, money-hungry-people, people who are mean to the elderly, innocent children and to all animals)
You made it all this way, you stuck it out. Whew, you're almost to the end...
Thank you for taking the time to read my BON page, Really! (As you can see, I'm never at a loss for words) lol
May you always have:
"Love To Share" "Health To Spare" & "Friends That Care".
There are times, When I am as quiet, As a Lion in hiding. SILENT... ALL THE WHILE, PRESENT AND ALERT
:All About My Sweet Grandson Blake:
I will give up the rest of my life in order to give Blake his life. Please God; Keep Blake safe and all those in need. Through Jesus Christ. 'Amen'
UPDATE ON BLAKE'S HEALTH CONDITION BELOW
UPDATES ON BLAKE
!!!! THANK YOU !!!! ! To Everyone !
The Medical Ordeal Over My Grandson Blake (22 mo. Old)
Time line of the following is: July 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29 The Medical Ordeal Over Blake's Health
1st UPDATE:
Blake made it through the Emergency Microscopic Surgery, NOW in a room, as of 1:45 a.m.
This all just happened last night, being flown in the Copter, and being placed in the hospital...
It all just hit at once...
They did a Biopsy...we are waiting for the test results...
To see if it is Cancer in his Throat, Where the Doctors removed the growth during the night, microscopically (Surgery)
Thank you again
Warmly With L & R,
Blondie
More News
BLAKE IS NOW SAYING *the following* (in the hospital):
“DRINK” (He's Thirsty)
“OUT” (Doesn’t want the nurses to touch him)
“No,Back” (Doesn’t want shots and I.V.’ s)
“Pink” (Blake wants his home made pink & yellow stuffed animal)
2nd UPDATE:
Blake now has his PINK...He wouldn't go to sleep without it.
(Someone drove all the way back to Rogersville from Knoxville to retrieve PINK for Blake)
Blake had to be flown in a Helicopter without any Family (No room...Due to the Medical Team) to accompany him to Knoxville Tenn.
And that gave him a bit of a separation anxiety.
Now Blake is doing some sort of ...lol (So cute) *ROW CALL*
When he can't see his family, while in the Baby hospital bed...he calls out:
"Momma, Dadda, Mam 'maw, Papaw"
Each person has to say "YES Blake. I am here with you"
(Thank you for asking about me as well)
I am staying strong and giving the support my family needs to get through this.
Blake (Docs say) will be in the hospital in Knoxville for at least a week,
And they will see from there...after the biopsy test comes back from the lab.
Thank you for all the concern over my sweet Grandson Blake.
Warmly,
Blondie
3rd UPDATE:
My Grandson Blake (22 mo. old)
NOW is able to swallow a little bit of some snow cone
That the nurses made for him in the children’s hospital
And Ride in a little Wagon, while lying down,
It's Keeping Blake calm, riding up and down the hallways in the hospital,
Keeping him busy, while he tries to recover.
Thank you once again for
All Of Your Loving Support! (All Week)
Blondie and Blake, Dustin (My son) and Family
4th UPDATE:
Your prayers and thoughts from the heart have worked,
!!!!Thank you!!!!
My Oldest Son Dustin (Blake’s Father)
Called me to give me the latest news of Blake’s progress.
Blake was able to eat a ½ cup of Jell-O and 20 little wafers.
Ice’ (snow cone) a little bit.
Water
Blake has thrush in his mouth
And this is making it difficult
For him to eat, but he is trying.
The Doctors are saying now that Blake is able
To somewhat swallow liquids and some food,
He might be able to return home to Rogersville Tenn.
From Knoxville Tenn.
(Home hopefully! Not in a hospital there)
The surgery that took place in his throat seems to be
Allowing him to now swallow, removing the growth
Were a dangerous, but a successful surgery.
The biopsy results are not yet in, but the doctors might be Willing to allow Blake to return home, If the night goes well, and tomorrow shows positive progress During the time Blake is due for food and liquids.
Blake is still complete with the IV needles under the skin
And in the veins, but no longer attached to the tubes,
For now, that is.
I relayed all of your warm thoughts, prayers,
And well wishes to my Son Dustin and to the rest of our family.
We all thank you deeply from our hearts!!!!
My Son was very thankful to all of you here on BON.
Warmly,
Blondie & Blake & Dustin & Family
5th UPDATE:
“Son Of My Son”
Son of my Son, so sweet, so precious, just a little dear
Great big smiles, a bit of talking, his laughter I long to hear
Son of my Son, completely unique,
One of a kind,
Big bright eyes, soft blonde hair, tender kiss on his cheek,
My Son, a baby, comes to mind
Son of my son, just a little guy, not quite two,
Learning to talk, boy can he walk, not yet able to tie his shoe
Son of my Son, full of life, with times of being ill
Never giving us strife, He, living a long life, is our will
Son of my Son, with all his tiny clothes, short little jeans
Before we know it, he’ll be growing into his teens
Son of my Son, he was given the name Blake Angelo Arroyo on August 29 2006
His given name, handed down by his father, three grandfathers,
So you see, a bit of a mix
Son, Son of my Son, whom I miss, love both quite dearly
This poem was wrote out of the love for my Son, Son of my Son
AND OUT OF THE CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL IN KNOXVILLE TENN.
JULY 29, ONE MONTH BEFORE BLAKE TURNS 2 YEARS OLD, 23 MONTHS OLD TODAY!
I WAS TOLD BLAKE IS NOW HOME EATING DRINKING, AND RUNNING AROUND AS A 23 MONTH OLD SHOULD BE. ALL OF YOUR PRAYERS, AND WARM THOUGHTS, AND WELL WISHES HAVE BROUGHT BLAKE BACK TO A HEALTHY ENOUGH STATE, TO BE BROUGHT HOME.
*STILL NO TEST RESULTS*
NOW IS A TIME TO FEEL JOY AND HAPPINESS,
AND TO BE VERY THANKFUL FOR THE POWER OF THE LOVE OF OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS, RIDERS OF THE ROAD.
WARMLY,
BLONDIE, BLAKE, DUSTIN & FAMILY
THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR CARDS AND STUFFED ANIMALS, ETC., THAT YOU SENT TO MY GRANDSON BLAKE.
BLAKE AND MY SON DUSTIN BOTH THANK YOU DEEPLY! (I DO TOO!) BLONDIEBEHINDU
"CREATIONS BY DAWN" THERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES OF SOME OF THE GRAPHICS AND IMAGES I CREATED / DESIGN FOR WEB PAGES. www.BikerOrNot.com/CreationsByDawn
BON members write emails and State this:
“I want to get to know you”
All the while you have a completed profile with major details available to them and to the world.
A variety of questions begin:
You ask them if they have read your profile
Their answer:
“Yes”
Then you ask them a question that can be answered, if they have read your profile, in it's entirety, A simple question. Nothing too difficult.
Then their response is:
“Oh I have to go back and re-read your profile”
Or
“I didn’t read the whole thing”
Ok, But the question can be answered by reading the first few lines of the profile.
(Hmm Something’s Fishy In Denmark)
Why bother contacting a person if you are not going to take the time to read their profile to learn who they are as a person, and their lifestyle, etc.
(Remember, They stated they "Want To Get To Know You")
If this is true, wouldn't it be a good idea to read over the person's profile?
(Not all do this, but several do)
5 Simple Steps to take to “Get To Know“ a person.
1st: Read profile
2nd: View available photos
3rd: Think about information, is there compatibility?
4th: Invite person of interest to view your profile
5th: Email person of interest if you are still interested
Do none of the above if you are looking for sex / sex chat only.
(These two just might be the culprits behind not doing steps 1 thru 5)
I’m A Night Owl ~ I’m A Leo ~ I’m A Survivor ~ I’m A Mother & Grandmother ~
Mess with the bull and you will get the horns,
I will spear no actions to protect my own.
I fear nothing but God himself.
If you do not believe my words, try me.
CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW ?
You have been clearly and completely notified. (You know who you are)
THIS IS FACT
I REPEAT!
GET IT ? GOOD ! NOW RUN ALONG CHILDREN.
YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO PLAY NICE ON THE PLAYGROUND!
DUE TO HOW EVIL YOU ARE ON THE INSIDE, NOT TO MENTION GROTESQUE ON THE OUTSIDE, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU TO BE OF ANY GOOD TO ANYONE OR ANYTHING @ ANYTIME.
YOU "Gargoyles" NEED TO BE SENT TO THE PRINCIPLES OFFICE.
The Word Jealousy Comes To Mind.
:JEALOUSY:
“Frequently gets out of control”
“Contains anger, sadness, disgust”
“All brought together by the belief That one’s lover has been unfaithful”
“A type of anxious insecurity following From the perception of threat to a relation”
The word "Jealousy" is frequently used To describe what is more properly "Envy", Fixation on what someone else has.
Envy and Jealousy are distinct in their object.
Jealousy concerns something one has And is afraid of losing,
While Envy concerns something one does not have and either
He /she wants to acquire or he/she wants The other(s) not to have.
Another words... "Get A Life!"
Cow·ard {Coward(s) = Chicken Shit(s)}
–noun
1. a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc.; a timid or easily intimidated person.
–adjective
2. lacking courage; very fearful or timid. 3. proceeding from or expressive of fear or timidity: a coward cry.
Coward in Multilingual, Take your pick, Either way, A Coward Is A Coward ! A Chicken Shit Is A Chicken Shit ! I Have No Room For Chicken Shits ! I Have No Room For Cowards ! I Have No Room For Liars !
:WARNING: Do Not Mistake My Kindness For Weakness !
You Will Not Like The Outcome !
The Victory Will Be A Foregone Conclusion!
TO ALL OF MY FAMILY & FRIENDS THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT
Love, Loyalty, Honor & Respect.
Turn ons: Big Smiles, Large Strong Hands, Protruding Veins, Cowboy Boots, Smells Good, Fresh Breath, Great Kisser, Tall Men 6'3"+. Well Endowed Man, Men N Tool Belts, Hazel/Green Eyes, Deep Voice.
Turn offs: Smoking, Bad Breath, Drugs, Heavy Drinking (If Done Regularly), Judging Others, Constant Couch Crashers.
Ideal: I 'll Know & He'll Know ... When We Meet, If We Meet. Friends Are Great For Now. Let's Ride!
Activities: PAINTING, PHOTOGRAPHY ANYTIME, LOVE TO RIDE ON HARLEYS, HORSES, ROCK HUNTING, FISHING, SHOOTING GUNS, DIRT BIKES, QUADS, POLARIS, GATORS, WATER, THE OCEAN, BLAZING FIRES, THE OUTDOORS, DANCING, SINGING, FLEA MARKETS, KISSING, CANDLES, ROMANCE, PICNICS JUST ABOUT ANYWHERE. PLAYING WITH MY 13+ GRANDCHILDREN, MOVIES & POPCORN, LONG DRIVES, BUILDING AND/OR CREATING WITH MY HANDS & TOOLS, WORKING IN MY YARD, BUILDING ANY TYPE OF POND OR FOUNTAIN, COOKING, INTERIOR DESIGN IN THE HOME, GOING TO CONCERTS, AMUSEMENT PARKS, BBQ’S WITH FAMILY & FRIENDS, HUNTING FOR TREASURES VIA ANTIQUE STORES / GARAGE SALES,
MOREOVER, NOT NECESSARILY IN THE ORDER OF WHICH THIS WAS WRITTEN.
HOWEVER, I LOVE TO DO ALL OF THESE ACTIVITIES…
Interests: Art, Web Design, Dancing, Dining, Family, Friends, Movies, Listening to Music, Outdoor Activities, Gardening, Crafts, Playing Music, Photography, Cooking, Computers / Internet, Writing, Flea Markets, Rock Hunting, Shooting Guns, Fishing, Horses, And of course, last but not least, Riding on Harleys. (BehindU)
Favorite Music:
Country, Rock, Oldies, Blues, Anything with a drum of sorts. [Not Rap, it is not Music!] I can not deal with Rap!
Favorite TV Shows: 2 & 1/2 MEN
CSI
CSI MIAMI
CSI NEW YORK
KING OF QUEENS
DATELINE
48 HOURS
I DO NOT WATCH THE DAY TIME SOAPS, I HAVE HATED THEM MY WHOLE LIFE.
Favorite Movies: DRAMAS COMEDIES ACTION FANTASY SEXUAL, BUT WITH A PLOT OF SORTS
Favorite Books: I at one time, read books regualrly.
NOW, I DO MOST OF MY READING & RESEARCH ON THE WWW I FIND READING BOOKS TO BE TOO SLOW FOR MY TASTE.
Favorite Quotes: PLEASE DO NOT MISTAKE MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS, I AM NOT WEAK, BUT I AM KIND. Don't make someone your priority, When you are their option. I Think I Know; I'm Sure I Don't Care. If It Sounds Too Good To Be True; It Probably Is. Are You A*s*k*i*n*g Me, or TELLING Me ? SPOONING LEADS TO FORKING!
About Me: I am an Artist, Poet, Writer, & Photographer... But, so much more.
I'm Happy & Free Spirited ! I'm a Flirt & Loyal !
YOU CAN LEARN ALL ABOUT ME VIA MY FRONT PAGE AND MY BLOGS, PHOTO ALBUMS.
Sex: Female (Yes, "Top Shelf Sex" Only Please)
Location: Nor Cal: Wine Country: Santa Rosa:, CA ("Location, Location, Location")
Country: United States (I'm a good ole Country Girl)
Interested in: Males (And so much more in life)
Age: 49 (I feel & live like I am 19)
Ride: Oh Hell Yeah (Behind U)
Own a bike: No (Not at the moment)
Status: Divorced/Single (It's not a bad thing)
Looking for: Friends (The Real Type), Relationships (What are those?), Riding Partners (Behind U) (Rocks & U Of Course)
Religion: Almighty God Himself: (For He Is The Only One, Who Has The Right To Judge Me)
Drink: Drink Socially (It's a wonder I don't drink like a fish by now)
Smoke: Hell No (Never in my life)
Drugs: Hell No (I'm high enough...lol)
(Some days I wonder how I have made it this far without them, But "Medicated" for YOUR Protection...lol)
BlondieBehindU :81 SPTR: CREATIONS BY DAWN :FFF S/H 's Albums
BlondieBehindU :81 SPTR: CREATIONS BY DAWN :FFF S/H 's Garage
2006 Harley-Davidson Road King 1 Fast Road King Bagger, and I was on the "Back" during many wheelies.
Video posted on www.youtube.com
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPoUBRrl5Gk
*Key word searches:
Dawn, / Wheelie, / Angel, Road King, Bagger, Santa Rosa
2007 Harley-Davidson Harley-Davidson My (Friend Wally's Bike) BuD4eVeR's Harley... "WIDOWMAKER" ON BIkerOrNot... Kick Ass Bike *See other photos of his bike lit up in my albums.
2009 Indian Scout INDIAN (My Friend Garry's Bike) 2009 Indian Scout
102c.i. motor, bigger cam / bigger carb, after market prestolite ignition, vance and hines exhaust,leather bags, hidden ghost brackets, windvest windshield, forward aluminum billet controls, so much more, too much to list.