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Aloha! I'm a 42 year old female coming to you from the Island of Hawaii. First off, I wud lyke to say that my profile iz rated "M.A" for Mature Adultz... if yah cant handle a female whoz straight up and to the point then stop reading this profile NOW! I am no one to beat around the bush nor "pussy-foot" around certain areas. I tell it lyke it iz and spell it how I want (haha) YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED! hehe.

I've been a single Mom to 2 boyz for the majority of their lyfez. It has taught me a lot about myself, people and this world. Tho at times I may struggle to be both Mom and Dad to my boiz, therez nuthin in this world that cud make me change the past. I am who I am today because of it and I love it! I do wut I gotta do and yet make time for wut I wanna do. SUCH IZ LYFE!




Now, Why am I here on this site? I was referred to this site by one of my very good frendz named "OsOBaD" (Muah!!!).. Been told that I don't belong on this site for what reason I don't really know... Last tyme I checked this was a free country and being that I pay my own billz .. well hell... I know I can go and do whatever the hell I want too... so KISS OFF! (Jus sayn) U got a problem with me, I'll respect you if you can tell me why and nawt beat around the horses ass on it!... But then again , ask me if I care about what you THINK it'z what you KNOW about me that really countz.. and that iz hard to come by. There'z a handful of people on this site that really KNOWZ me so if you really wanna KNOW me ask me and I'll tell yah other then that u can just keep assuming about me. It'z really a MIND over Matter thing..

I don't mind and YOU sure as hell DON'T Matter! I do not think of myself as above all otherz nor do I KNOW that I'm of a lesser human being because of my race, nationality, creed or color. To me , we are ALL equalz and the sooner people realize that the better off this fooked up world will be!

*********************CHATROOM*********************

I often go into the Chat room to "Cyber-Visit" with frendz and to have fun. Yes, I understand that this iz a "dating site" I am not lookin to hook up but if it happenz then so be it. (See below for the type of man that I am hoping to meet)There iz again just a handful of people who I will strike up a conversation with. I also like to greet people as they come into the room. (Just my style) I am in NO way tryin to hit on you just cuz I say Hi. I don't nor ever will "flash" so lets get that clear.. Hey if YOU wanna flash ... go on with ur bad self itz just not for me. I do not partake in any "Cyber-sex" nor do I "phone-bone". But then again... if that's what you do.. ^5 to yah. (wink)

I just have tah say this so plz plz plz take notes.... I do nawt take anything seriously in the CHATROOM... Nor shud you... I may "play around " with a few people and itz only because we've established a frendship that took us to where we "play" or "mess" around with one another. It's only fun for me. NOW... Plz note that I will not cross that line that to me iz SACRED in an relationship. Meaning if yah got a gurl, significant other, wife, live in or anything remotely close to that ... dont even try to get all cozy with me, nawt even that gooshy mushy "love" talk cuz I aint about breakin up a relationship no matter how bad U say it iz... Got it? GET IT! GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD! oh and ummmm u can toss that famous line out the window too. u know the good old (VERY OLD) "Oh her?,yeah... thats ummmm my cuzin" KOFFKOFFBULLSHYT!

******************* MY IDEAL PARTNER ********************
LMAO!!! I think it'z easier for me to tell u what I'm NOT wanting in MY IDEAL PARTNER... so here I go.. What I'm WANTING in a MAN iz sumone who can "KEEP IT REAL" from the beginning and NOT be a lying, stealing, cheating, whinny-ass, low self-esteemed, self-controlling, manipulative, conniving, "I'm all that and you aint shit" all around weak-ass BOY!

******* I want a MAN thats not afraid to be who he truly iz with me no matter where we are, someone who isnt so busy tryin to "fit in" to society in other wordz I want a LEADER and not a follower. I want a man who iz humble in every aspect (Show me what you're about, don't tell me)Someone who iz patient, kind, careing, sensitive to my needz, someone to lean on when tymez are rough. Someone that when in the heat of an argument will just grab me and hold me and squeeze me till I shut the fook up (LOL)I cud go on and on in this dept. but I'll stop now.

ALL I'M WANTING IN A MAN IZ TO BE TREATED AS HE WUD WANT TO BE TREATED IN EVERY ASPECT OF A RELATIONSHIP.

That simple enuff for yah? Oh yeah, one more thing... IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A CHICK WHO YOU THINK WILL ONLY THRIVE WITH YOUR EXISTENCE.....

YOU BETTA LOOK ELSEWHERE.